Happiness Project: One Year Review

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Drum roll, please!  This post is my Happiness Project one year in review—which is long overdue since it ended September 30th of this year.

Yes, it has been more than an entire year since I started my Happiness Project and, even though I am no longer reporting on my project monthly, I am still going strong.

I stopped doing the monthly reports for two reasons: 1) I was getting overwhelmed with selecting new monthly themes and keeping tracks of them all and 2) the monthly reporting was too time-consuming and distracting.

 I Am No Gretchen Rubin

One thing I discovered rather early in the course of my Project was that I am no Gretchen Rubin. Not by a long shot. The woman is positively organized and driven. Apparently, these are weak areas for me. Let me rephrase that last sentence, I am different and that is okay.

Although my project looked different than hers, it was still vastly successful and, in truth, that is all that genuinely matters.

I am rather casual and a bit of a butterfly—not organized and orderly. You can translate this carefree and rolling with the punches or the proverbial “flying by the seat of my pants” which worked well for me.

I think this proclivity has helped me raise nine children without going insane.

Since my first commandment was “Be Florence,” I was okay with deviating from Gretchen’s blueprint as long as I was learning and accomplishing my goals.


Happiness Project_ One Year in review


My Happiness Project a Year in Review

The First Six Months

At the six months mark, I did a thorough review of all my themes to that point. Rather than rehashing what has already been said, I will put some links to the posts below.

I will also put a link to each monthly summaries.

Additionally, I think it may be a good idea to put the preparatory posts as well as the lessons learned along the way which pertained to my Happiness Project and which I have already covered at length.

Then, I will go into the  “meat” of the last six months as well as the lessons learned.

Finally, I will cover the reason why I plan to continue with my Project past the one year mark.

Preparatory Posts

My Lessons

My Happiness Project a Year in Review

I started a couple of themes thinking—at first—that I would derive pleasure from them. This turned out not to be the case. However, even my discarded themes turned out to be marvelous lessons in happiness.

These were the themes: one was getting a library card from the Community College and the other was painting rocks for a benevolent project called the Kindness Rock Project.

Discarded Themes

Even though I did not use the library card once after applying for it, I still derived some joy from going to get it. First, I found pleasure going on campus —after decades out of college. A college library has a different feel than the public library. This step was certainly out of my normal routine and I found it quite enjoyable and whimsical.

As to the Kindness Rock project, I signed up for a couple of groups on Facebook for projects in my area. I can say with certainty, there are some very gifted painters out there and many derive much pleasure from this project. One lady was masterful at painting her rocks which were works of art. It was obvious she loved not only the painting but hiding the rocks as well.

On one another occasion, I purposefully went looking for a rock. It is when I discovered I really had no genuine interest in the project aside from maybe doing it once with my Littles as a project.

From these two—seemingly—duds, I still learned a valuable lesson. I would much prefer to try something and discover it was not for me—or I had no genuine interest in the first place—than to nurse regrets from not having tried at all.

The Mixed Bag Projects

Keeping in Touch by Writing

My BFF and I still write back and forth on occasion. We’re both busy moms.

Writing to my sons has died a slow death or maybe a more fitting explanation is that I killed the project with my bare hands. I lost my desire to write when I discovered that controlling busybodies liked to read my notes.

As I write this though, I have decided to maybe try again. My goal is to let my loved ones know that they are—well—loved even if controllers like to infer themselves in the picture.

On the other hand, I have taken on a new project along these lines for completely benevolent reasons. I write to a handful of individuals every month whom I know are struggling with life. I can necessarily touch a lot of people but I can touch those in my circle of influence.

Organization and Time Management

I have learned that to remain sane and happy, I must acquiesce to a certain amount of disorganization. Such is my life and my nature.

Moreover, I do not excel at being a homemaker. This is not my forte and I would rather put up with some disorganization and mess than stress over some disarray and clean constantly.

If I am to be organized and tidy, my best bet would be to seek help or to force myself to do it (which at this juncture, I am not inclined to do).

Alexa and Podcasting

I started a couple new projects mostly to do with work: Alexa Briefs and a Podcasting. I abandoned both of them.



I am still using two apps on a regular basis, Todoist, and Evernote. I love them! They help to stay—somewhat—organized and on top of things.

Marriage, Children and Me

Marriage, kids and “myself” have been my best and most productive themes. So, basically, relationships have been well worth any extra effort on my part.

The Greatest Lessons

By far my greatest lesson came out of my commandments, not the action steps themselves: be Florence and say yes have been huge for me. The other big piece of the puzzle had been awareness or mindfulness as some prefer to call it.

Being mindful to be my most authentic self and to show up in all my endeavors as myself has been amazing. The fruits I have reaped had been plentiful.

I would encourage everyone to start their own project, it’s well worth it! And if you have done one, I would really like for you to share your story!

Blessings and happy New Year!

PS: If you are curious, you can the book The Happiness Project here.

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